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Friday, July 22, 2005

Aaaand... grief

My friends are all grieving in their own ways. So am I. I don't know what to say or do, because the truth is, nothing anyone can say or do will help. Grief is grief. The reason that people are uncomfortable when their friends are faced with grief, especially people who have experienced it, is that they know that they can't possibly do anything to ease your pain. All they can do is listen and be there for you. But they can't really make anything better. Nothing makes it better.

That said, I'm going to withdraw for a few days. Anyone who needs/wants to can call or IM me. (really. especially if I love you. fuckers.)

The point of this is that grief is understandable. Feel it. Live it. Process it. But please, don't hide it. I think KA would've hated that.


babbled by Kat @ 1:52:00 AM | |